Valentine’s Day Beauty Inspiration

My beauty advice for Valentine’s Day is not unlike my New Year’s Eve beauty advice – keep it as natural-looking as possible, and only emphasize one element of the face at the time. My addendum to this holiday is to do your makeup with the morning after in mind. Nothing is less sexy than looking like an old Hollywood screen siren during date night dinner, and then appearing to be a completely different person the morning after when your liquid eyeliner is crumbling off your eyelids, and your skin is irritated beyond repair because you didn’t wash your face properly the night before. To avoid this dilemma, I suggest using only a few, key products (that you already have in your repertoire) for a healthy, feminine, and luminous look. These colors and products will fade softly and look pretty even when smudged a bit. Steer clear of foundation, liquid eyeliner, sticky lip glosses, anything with glitter, and lipstick that won’t stay put.

Face

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Get the look: Facial moisturizer (let it soak in for 30 min) + brown-based blush under the cheek bones + golden brown eye shadow at the crease of the eye + waterproof mascara + colorless lipbalm

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Get the look: White eyeshadow on eyelids + golden brown eyeshadow on eyelid creases + rosy pink shadow on cheekbones + chapstick

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Get the look: Pink eyeshadow on eyelids + rosy pink blush on cheeks + coral-based lipgloss

Lips

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Get the look: Lip liner will become your new best friend if you’ll let it. Lip liner stays in place much better than lipstick, and last longer!

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Get the look: High impact lips are even more impactful on a blank slate. Let the lips do the heavy lifting, use no other color on your face, except for maybe some white eyeshadow at the inner corner of your eyes to make them appear more open.

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Get the look: Dark lips, be it raspberry or burgundy, can look a little goth. Balance out the dark glamour of a dark lip with luminous, highly moisturized skin – no blush required.

Eyes

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Get the look: Play it cool. Even if you LOVE Valentine’s Day and all things pink, don’t go for the brightest pink or red, pick the more muted tone – I promise you’ll look ten times chicer.

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Get the look: Don’t get me wrong, I love a nice winged cat eye with black liquid eyeliner. That being said, I think this is a more romantic look, and will wear much better over the course of the evening. A brown pencil eyeliner in a tone that complements your skin tone is a must-have.

Nails

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Get the look: Pink or red nail polish is SO expected for Valentine’s Day – as is something moody like black. Metallic nails are a good choice for both the happy and melancholic, they will look good with every outfit and Valentine’s Day outlook.

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Get the look: My moody Valentine’s Day nail choice would not be black (so 2008), but matte gray.

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Get the look: If you want something more classic than metallic or matte gray, definitely go with a nude nail polish that complements your skin tone. If you don’t already have a go-to color, compare the color of the polish to the color of your natural nail – you’re looking for as close to a match as possible.

Lipsticks for your Skin Tone

I’ll admit I’m daring when it comes to outfits, but makeup – that’s a different story. I’m intimidated by bold lip color in particular, so I often stick with neutral glosses in seashell pink and golden shades. Part of the reason why bold lipstick can be intimidating is because you love it in the tube, but when you put it on, your skin color gives way to an unflattering pallor, and your lips are so bright they seem to jump off your face. The reason for this beauty phenomenon is that this color doesn’t compliment your skin tone, nor does it reflect your natural lip color. While many guides exist trying to direct you towards the right lipstick color based on the strict categories of flesh color – fair, olive, dark, etc. – I find these confusing and largely unhelpful. Many people find themselves stuck in between two categories and thus don’t know which shade to choose. If you’re faced with this dilemma, here are my two go-to tricks for choosing a flattering lipstick shade.

Trick 1 for Neutral Lipstick: While at Harper’s Bazaar, I learned that to pick the right nude nail polish, you must compare it to the natural color of your nails. My nails for instance have a mauve-y undertone, so the nude polishes I opt for are not based in yellow or pink, they have a slight purple undertone. I think this same trick can be used to pick your go-to nude lipstick. Hold a color up to your lips and see if it resembles your natural lip color – darker or lighter, sheer or pigmented, it doesn’t matter, as long as it’s in the same color family.

Trick 2 for Bold Lipstick: On the other hand, to pick a non-neutral lipstick, you need to work off of your skin tone. To do this, identify your undertone – is it pink (cool) or yellow (warm)? Look on the underside of your wrist: if your veins are blue, you’ve got a cool pink undertone, if your veins are green, you’ve got a warm yellow undertone. See both blue and green veins? Then you’ve got both pink and yellow tones, meaning you have a neutral skin tone and can go either way. Once you’ve decided which undertone you have, now you can pick a lipstick color.

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Warm lipstick for yellow skin undertones, those with medium, golden, or tan skin: Choose a color with a warm orange, yellow, or golden base, think coral, earthy pinks, rusty red, plum, berry.

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Lipstick Queen, Endless Summer SPF in Stoked

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Lipstick Queen, The Metals in Nude Metal.

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Urban Decay Revolution in F-Bomb.

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Cool lipstick for pink skin undertones, those with fair or dark skin: Choose a color with a cool blue, purple, or silver base, hot pink, rose pink, cherry red, raspberry, mauve.

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Lipstick Queen, Endless Summer SPF 15 in Perfect Wave.

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Lipstick Queen, The Metals in Wine Metal.

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Urban Decay Revolution in Catfight.

Service Review: Blownaway App

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This weekend, to prepare for a black-tie event, I tried out Dallas’ latest on demand beauty service, Blownaway. Blownaway was launched just this July, and is the love child of instant gratification and the Drybar/Blushington experience. Using mobile technology similar to transportation game-changer Uber, Blownaway instantly delivers blowouts, updos, professionally done makeup, and spray tans straight to your door.

Scheduling an appointment is easy. Download the Blownaway app from iTunes, and from there, you can shuffle through several blowout, makeup, and spray tan looks. A blowout and makeup can be done in the same sitting, each service taking only 45 minutes. It is suggested that the spray tan be completed separately, not only because it requires a different stylist, but because it should be finished two days before an event so the color has time to mellow out.

Things you should know before scheduling your first appointment? Blownaway asks that you book at least two hours in advance, and have your hair freshly washed before the stylist arrives if you are scheduling a blowdry. Also, for girls who are sensitive to certain product ingredients, or simply want to stick with an eco-friendly beauty product regimen, this request can be entered into the “notes” section upon mobile scheduling so your stylist can prepare accordingly.

For my Blownaway appointment, I booked two days in advance, and the same stylist was scheduled to do both my hair and makeup. Immediately after booking, I got a confirmation text with the stylist’s name, and 10 minutes before the appointment, the stylist confirmed once more. The entire booking experience was professional and painless.

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Bianca, my Blownaway stylist, was incredibly prompt and upbeat. Most stylists come from a Drybar background, and become certified Blownaway stylists after background checks, an intense interview process, and comprehensive training. Bianca listened to all of my needs and suggestions regarding hair and makeup, and was both confident and easygoing.

One huge perk about Bianca’s blowout was that she knew exactly how to manage my thick, coarse hair. With her own hair as thick and long as a Disney princess’, she used the perfect technique and products on my hair to make the blowout last for over three days. Her number one tip for creating the perfect blowout at home is to rough-dry the hair 85% before going back through with a round brush. This allows you to save both time and energy.

Blownaway is quickly becoming every Dallas girl’s beauty go-to, whether it is to prep for a major business meeting, a wedding, or date night. A Blownaway tip from us to you?  Great discount rates are available for party and group orders, meaning that Blownaway is an ideal and fun solution for bachelorette parties, or just a glam evening in with girlfriends. While services for one are best booked on your mobile phone, book services for a party online.

Pricing:

Blowouts start at $65

Makeup starts at $70

Spray tans start at $65

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Interview with Ashleigh Foster on Plant-Based Diets and Eco-Friendly Beauty Products

Ashleigh Foster is a filmmaker, a new mom, and a proponent of plant-based diets and eco-friendly beauty products. Ashleigh, a Hockaday alum, writes a lovely, inspiring blog called “I Spy the Beautiful,” that covers everything from the story of her daughter’s home birth, to her favorite vegan recipes. Keep reading to pick up a green smoothie recipe, directions for a DIY sea salt hair spray, and useful tips on transitioning into a vegan diet.

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Twyla Shelmire: What is the difference between a vegan diet, a raw diet, and a plant-based diet?

Ashleigh Foster: A plant-based diet is the broadest term and it just means that you try and base most of your meals around plant foods: vegetables, grains, legumes, etc. This has become a very popular term with all of the recent research suggesting that a diet largely comprised of plants is the healthiest long-term approach.

A vegan diet has more of an ethical basis. It excludes all products that are derived from animals, so any meat, poultry or fish but also and dairy products, eggs, even honey isn’t considered vegan.

A raw diet means you’re not cooking anything and are eating a lot of raw vegetables, fruits, nuts, and seeds. Some people choose to include animal products in a raw diet—raw fish and raw (unpasteurized) dairy, which is why you will hear people describe themselves as “raw vegan” to specify that they are both raw and vegan.

TS: Have you always been vegan? Was there someone or something that inspired you to make the transition, or did it just make you feel better?

AF: I wasn’t raised vegan at all and it has been a very slow transition for me. About seven years ago I was struggling with on going depression and just general lethargy. I didn’t wake up with energy in the morning and I just sort of went through life feeling tired. I began to really look at the connection between what I was eating and my energy. As I transitioned towards a healthier diet, I felt better and better. I lost weight. My skin cleared up. My energy increased.

You’ll get a lot of people telling you that making these kinds of big changes to your diet is extreme. They say that like it’s a bad thing. But I love extremity. I’m not about balance at all. I don’t believe in it. The thing that I see is that the place we have gotten to culturally with our food choices is extreme. You know what’s extreme to me? Hot Cheetos. I was drinking a green smoothie in front of a girl eating a bag of hot Cheetos once and she told me it looked weird. Her fingers were dyed BRIGHT ORANGE! It only makes sense that we’re going to have to take some extreme measures in order to get back to a place that is more natural if we want to feel good.

I didn’t go vegan right away, that part came last. When you start feeling better you’ll want to do good things for the world and you’ll start really looking at the effect your choices have on the world. You’ll start caring about things more because you’re becoming more connected to yourself and that is always going to connect you more to the planet. So eating vegan as much as possible just becomes what you want to do because you want to be more loving and compassionate. And I don’t want people to think it’s so out of reach either, you don’t have to be perfect at it, I’m definitely not. But you just keep aiming to be compassionate in your choices and it ends up being amazing for your health and for the planet.

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TS: What are some common misconceptions about being vegan or eating all raw?

AF: I think one of the biggest problems is that people feel it’s inaccessible. They hear vegan or raw and they think “Oh I could never do that”. And that’s a huge mistake because this is not about perfection, nothing is. This is just about learning and growing. So I’d encourage people to go vegan for one day a week. Eat a raw breakfast in the morning (a green smoothie for example). See how you feel. Just keep moving in a positive direction. People get overwhelmed and it immobilizes them into not making any changes and that’s sad. Even little changes will add up in an amazing way.

The other huge misconception is that eating healthy has to taste bad or be miserable. If it tastes bad, you’re not doing it right. Granted, there does need to be a transition period where you’re getting used to new flavors. But what a lot of people don’t realize is that your tastebuds are constantly changing. If you give yourself 3 weeks to get used to things you’re going to find a whole new palette of foods that appeal to you. Then the harder work can happen of letting go of some of our emotional connections to foods that are unhealthy because your Grandmother fed you donuts every time you saw her and she really loved you so now when you eat donuts you feel loved. You can start to see those things and rewrite those thoughts in your head. The truth is, you are loved. Grandma loved you. It had nothing to do with the donuts. And then you can start to believe that you deserve to be healthy and to feel good. Once that happens, there’s no holding back.

TS: When you are cooking certain dishes or putting together juices, is it intuitive what ingredients to use, or do you work from a cookbook?

AF: This is the most fun thing and something that I really love is that once you become familiar with a new palette of foods to cook with you can get really creative, especially when you’re cooking raw because you can taste exactly what is coming out as you go. I make a lot of stuff up as I go. But I love to use cookbooks too and often will flip through them for inspiration. One thing I’ve learned that I use a lot is that we are most satisfied by a balance of flavors. We’re looking for something salty, sweet, acidic, and fatty all at once. If you think of your favorite foods, most of them have all four of those going on at once. That’s where you get chocolate chip cookies with sea salt on top. Chocolate is a little acidic. Cookies have sugar and butter. And then you add some salt and it’s like tastebud crack. When I’m making any dish, I always try and remember that.

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TS: What are some of your favorite foods, dishes, and juices?

AF: A favorite salad dressing of mine is cashew butter, sage, garlic and lemon juice with a little salt. It feels super indulgent because it has all of those components I just mentioned that your mouth is looking for. You can use that as a template for making your own dressings. Pick a nut butter, your favorite herbs, some garlic, and lemon. Blend that with a little water and maybe some maple syrup if you want it a little sweeter. That’s a great dressing in so many combinations. I love tahini + ginger or almond butter + basil. The options are endless.

I love doing that, creating a sort of template to experiment within. I make a ton of green smoothies by combining frozen fruit, fresh fruit, light greens and dark greens with a liquid. I think people can sometimes be scared to experiment because they don’t want to get it wrong, so having a guide can help. For smoothies you want to use about the same amount of frozen fruit, fresh fruit, and light greens, with about half that amount of dark greens. Add liquid like coconut water or almond milk until the consistency is what you like. My favorite is frozen banana, ripe banana, coconut water, and kale. In that one I leave out the light greens completely. It’s not an exact science. Don’t overdo it on the dark greens or you wont want to drink it. My sister makes green smoothies that look like swamp water because she thinks that is healthier and then she won’t drink them. Make it taste good and you’ll do it over and over again.

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TS: Do you stick to non-toxic beauty products? If so, what are some of your favorite brands or products? 

AF: I really believe in non-toxic beauty products. You absorb everything that goes on your skin. Not only that but those products that get rinsed off in the shower get into our water system and wreak havoc on our whole ecosystem. My favorite beauty products are no products at all. Our bodies are beautiful. Our imperfections are straight up beautiful. I try to wear make up as little as possible. Maybe a few times a year. I know some people find it fun but I find it fun to feel healthy and glowing from the inside out. If you really feel good inside and you’re treating your body right, your skin is going to be healthy and your hair will shine and your eyes will just glow. People are going to notice and more than that, you’re going to radiate from the inside out. Make up is just trying to make people look healthier. Covering blemishes, creating brighter eyes, giving cheeks a flush. It’s all designed to give the appearance of health but I say just go for the real thing.

My skin care routine is really basic. I rinse with water and exfoliate with scrubby gloves daily. If my skin is getting a little dry in colder weather I will use a little bit of moisturizer. I use Detox Moisturizer by Sonya Dakar. When I do use makeup, my absolute favorite brand is RMS, which is created by a woman who did makeup for Victoria Secret models for a long time. They’re all based in coconut oil and she has a great really natural color palette. Definitely check them out. There’s a store called Evolue that only carries really awesome products that are all good for the environment and your skin. You can check them out online. Oh also, I LOVE the Weleda citrus deodorant. It’s the best natural one out there. A lot of natural deodorants don’t work. That one smells fantastic and it works.

TS: Do you have any DIY beauty recipes you’d like to share? Or do you keep any specific kitchen ingredients on hand for beauty purposes?

AF: The one thing I’ve had fun making myself is a sea salt hair spray that can give you those beachy waves. I’ve seen it sold by different hair product lines. It’s really easy to make. You basically simmer 16 oz of water on the stove and add about 1/3 c of sea salt until it dissolves. Then cool the water and add 10 drops of lavender essential oil. I add a few drops of coconut oil, maybe like an 1/8th of a teaspoon just to give a tiny bit of shine. Let it cool and store it in a spray bottle. If you spray it on damp hair, it’ll give you that beachy look of being out at the ocean. I have curly hair and it works great. I’m not sure what it would do on straight hair.

I keep Epsom salts around for some great hot baths. I love to add some essential oils of lavender or chamomile to the water. I use jojoba oil to moisturize because I don’t really like to use coconut oil, which a lot of people love. Jojoba oil is a really mild seed oil that you can add scented oils to if you want. I always keep some castor oil around which is great for healing cuts or dry patches of skin. If I want to feel absolutely fantastic, I take a long hot bath and then shave. Then I rinse off in a cool shower and exfoliate with scrubby gloves. Then I get out and immediately use jojoba oil to moisturize my arms and legs and neck, etc. I put some moisturizer on my face. Comb my hair and spray with the salt spray and then brush my teeth and put on comfy pajamas. You will feel like a million bucks. Clean from head to toe and absolutely naturally gorgeous, which I guarantee you are.

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Beauty List: January 2014

  1. Winter Skincare Must-Have: Aromatherapy Associates, Polishing Body Brush, $23.00

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If you moisturize and moisturize and still have dry, flaky skin, it might be because you haven’t yet incorporated a polishing dry brush into your beauty routine. Use one of these brushes all over your body (pre-shower) for revitalized skin. Not only will one of these brushes remove dead skin cells, but it even reduces cellulite and in-grown hairs. With continued use, dry brushing boosts circulation and aids the lymphatic system.

  1. Train Like an Angel: Ballet Beautiful, Custom Workout, $39.99/month

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Fulfill your fitness goals in the New Year by committing to a monthly subscription of customized workouts from Ballet Beautiful. Ballet Beautiful videos are my go-to for a workout that is intensely toning, and done from the comfort of my own home. Mary Helen Bowers, founder of Ballet Beautiful, is a former New York City Ballet dancer and trains the Victoria’s Secret Angels (along with other A-list celebs) with this body-blasting system. If that’s not motivating enough to try, I don’t know what is. Check back in with DFW Beauty Guide tomorrow for a full interview with Mary Helen.

  1. Multitasking Product: NARS, ‘Eye-Opening Act – The Multiple’ Stick’, $39.00

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Like to keep your makeup routine simple? Me too. This NARS product is brand-new this month and is already a must-have for those who like a natural look. Apply this multi-purpose product to your face with your fingertips for a highlighting, and subtly shimmery effect. Use it for allover color, contours, and accents.

  1. Go Local: GEM Juice, 3-Day Cleanse, $155.00

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January is the universal month to refresh and reboot. Kick-start your health with a 3-day juice cleanse with GEM Juice Bar in Preston Center. If a full cleanse isn’t your thing, committing to one fruit or vegetable juice a day to balance out the holiday-season-toxin-consumption surely won’t hurt!

  1. Daily Dose of Luxury: Beauty Counter, Lustro Face Oil 2 – Jasmine, $64.00

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It’s important to baby your skin during the winter months – the cold outside, and the central heat inside are sure to do a number on those with dry and sensitive skin. Beef up your skincare routine for the next few months with an extra layer of moisture underneath your current cream moisturizer. I love this face oil from Beauty Counter, it absorbs quickly and packs a punch with rosehip and sea buckthorn.

Written for DFW Beauty Guide

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New Year’s Eve Makeup Looks

This New Year’s Eve, try something new and keep your makeup simple and fresh. While this is the most obvious night of the year to go all out with metallic liners, sultry eye shadows, and a face caked in makeup, let your outfit do the heavy lifting instead. The following three looks are very minimal – each emphasizing only one aspect of the face. You probably already have all of the makeup necessary to create these looks, but below each look is broken down with essential products. If you are on the market for a product or two, check out the three beauty companies highlighted here. All products mentioned are cruelty-free, and made with the health of the wearer in mind. After all, this New Year’s Eve is the perfect time to jumpstart 2015 with a new approach to the environment and to health.

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RMS Beauty– For Luminous, Dewey Skin

Optional skincare prep:

Beauty Oil, $74.

Lip & Skin Balm, $25.

Face:

Living Luminizer, $38.

“Un” Cover-Up, $36.

Do not add any powder to the mix, the purpose is to have glossy, candlelit skin.

Cheeks and Lips:

Lip2Cheek, $36 in Modest.

Eyes:

Eye Polish, $28 in Solar.

The eye shadow is optional, but will add more of a gold undertone, and play up the soft pink color on the cheeks and lips. Brush eyebrows with a bit of Waxelene so they are neat and stay in place. The slightly waxy finish does not require them to be filled in. Mascara is not necessary, but a delicate swipe can be added. If you add mascara, use it for lengthening purposes rather than thickening.

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Vapour Beauty – For Bold Lips

Face:

Atmosphere Luminous Foundation, $42.

Illusionist Concealer, $24.

Eyes:

Mesmerize Eyeliner, $20.

Only put on a very thin, light line on the top and bottom of the eye. Optional swipe of mascara on the top lashes. Again, the mascara is for lengthening rather than thickening purposes.

Lips:

Lux Organic Lip Conditioner, $20.

Tempest 423 Siren Lipstick, $24.

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Urban Decay – For ‘60s-Inspired Eyes

Face:

Naked Skin Weightless Ultra Definition Liquid Makeup, $39.

24/7 Concealer Pencil, $19.

Naked Skin Ultra Definition Loose Finishing Powder, $34.

Eyes:

Naked 24/7 Glide-On Double-Ended Eye Pencil, $16.

Put a little bit of the darker eyeliner at the base of the eyelashes on the top and bottom. This was a runway look, so for a more toned-down approach, only add false lashes to the top lashes. Finish with a thick line of light cream or white liner, the corners of the eye are particularly important to emphasize. Do not blend the liner!

Fast Easy Sexy Partial False Lashes, $15.

Supercurl Mascara, $20.

Brow Box, $29.

Lips:

24/7 Glide-On Lip Pencil, in Naked2 Medium Beige-Nude, $20.

Go for a lip color that will not take attention away from the eyes, pick something similar to your natural color – a hot pink or red would be overkill.

Naked Ultra Nourishing Lipgloss in Walk of Shame, $20.

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